Relationship-based Programs

Most of our 1-on-1s are long-term relationship-based programs,

customized around your specific trauma & resilience stories,

& what you specifically want to work on around race.


We most often run 16-week programs,

and also offer more flexible “a la carte” 4 weeks at a time program.


You can work with one of our team members, Aaron or Porsha, and explore what specifically comes up for you around reaching for a Black man or a Black woman, or a duet program with two of our team members, including:

  • Aaron and Porsha

  • Aaron and Jennie  

  • Aaron and Dylan


What can we shift in our minds, hearts, and bodies together over a 16-week phone program when we experience deep closeness and conversation around ending racism?


We use questions and scenarios from our lives and your life, and we are committed to meeting you where you’re at. We learn to be close to each other across identities that we’re taught should be barriers.

Custom Curriculum


Your trauma story, your pain profile, pleasure profile, family history, are all part of you. We want to get to know you on a deep level and meet you where you are.



This half is about action, taking the thinking from this program and applying it to your life. Where we go in the last 8 weeks depends on you, your needs, and hopes.


Be Flexible in Calls & Programming

We give space for any topic at the top for you (from news or life) 

Ultimately this is your session, your call...always allowing freedom in the process

Create Rigor over Time & Commitment

Bond & Connect
Deepen our relationship with each other and work towards closeness


Slow It Down

Not letting prolific moments slip by us - contrary to the white narrative that says “time is money”